Kamis, 19 Januari 2012

32 Characteristics of Si He (probably) Cheating

Men "sweet" can not be seen all sorts can be a swinger. Starting from a small affair to heavy affair that continues to bed! Mark the characteristics!
Not that should be suspicious of your partner. But, like anecdotes "cat presented with salted fish must be immediately struck by", who is not tempted if there is someone who is constantly trying to attract our attention. Because they often meet, chat, and finally each vent, infidelity was more likely to occur. Moreover, when the chance of the relationship with your partner, too, was like a dark cloud.
But, of course, does not mean the solution is to supervise and interrogate the couple for nearly 24 hours. Importantly, create a conducive relationship between the two of you, and learn to read the signs jelly possibility of infidelity. That way, betrayal can be stopped, and the relationship you both still be saved.
So, what are the early signs are any indication? Marcella Bakur and Raymon B. Green in their book, 180 Telltale Signs Hates Are Cheating and How to Catch Them, reveals 32 signs of an emotional person who was having an affair.

1. He's more attention than usual. This is because he feels guilty about it to you. However, the attention will slowly decrease and eventually disappear after the affair deepened.
2. He starts showering you with gifts. Just as the first point, it did because he felt guilty about betraying you. By giving gifts that she can overcome her guilt.
3. His behavior makes you feel something is wrong. Trust your instincts. No matter with the same instincts you "blinded" themselves from the truth that exists. You're the most out of habit, routine, and his attitude everyday. So, Be suspicious if all that changed.
4. He began more and more contentious. This is the reason to be angry and went to see his mistress. However, it could also be due to mixed feelings after betraying you.
5. Always discuss the possibility of your relationship ends. Beware if he started saying, "What do you do if our relationship ended?" or, "If something happens to us both, I will always love you as a friend." Just so you know, wishing sentence-if it's because there are others who will accept it gladly so your relationship ends.
6. She's like when you are experiencing PMS. He seemed pleased and excited when it will go out of the house alone, and instantly lethargic and weak as to be near you.
7. He rarely talked to you and be "cool" like an ice cube, do not care about your feelings.
8. His musical tastes suddenly changed. Because so more often listen to favorite music "the boyfriend", she was so involved liked the music.
9. Low self-esteem. Not that then he must have cheated. However, such people are generally inclined to seek security and positive feedback from others. Well, one way to get it, yes, through infidelity.
10. He constantly criticize others (opposite sex). This was his attempt to make you think that people like that is not his favorite type, even though she secretly interested.
11. She became more frequent giving criticism to you.
12. His emotions become more easily provoked to your comments, even though a neutral comment.
13. He no longer paying attention to you, children, and family life.
14. He started to like playing "hide and seek" when you are nearby. For example, often very close the door or go away when talking on the phone.
15. He never again praise your appearance.
16. He began to stop saying "I love you.
17. He looked uncomfortable or appear to feel guilty when you do good things for him.
18. He actually accused you who do not have an affair despite strong evidence.
19. He prefers to spend time with her friends than with you.
20. He began not interested in talking about the future of your marriage together.
21. He no longer showed his affection to you.
22. He prefers reading or watching television than talking or having sex with you.
23. He often talked about being experienced by other people, especially the opposite sex.
24. He began using the words of humor or jokes and opinions that differ from the usual, which does not reflect itself.
25. He's getting no attention to his children. Children also feel there is something wrong with their father.
26. He's like pulling away and away. But when you ask for it all, he did not want to talk about it.
27. He did not seem to concentrate and not show his passion during lovemaking.
28. He always seemed surprised or confused every morning. This is because not sure who he was in bed awake.
29. You heard him mention the name of a person delirious (a girl's name of course) more than once.
30. Your friends and family members often see the tension between you two, even long before you knew it.
31. He's easy to feel "threatened" when you're wondering about a few things to him, and felt like being interrogated.
32. Sleep patterns change from the usual and seemed restless.
Well, if the signs are also available on your partner? If so, beware.

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